Hello,
and welcome to Beyond Fear - The light at the end of the tunnel
I spent many years suffering from dental phobia, and my life was
affected in many ways. Not only did my
dental and general health
suffer, I also lost my self-confidence and self-esteem.
Very rarely did I smile, it showed my teeth and I was so ashamed
of them.
When talking face to face with others my hand was held in front
of my mouth to hide my rotten teeth.
Eating was often a problem but I persevered. After all it was
better than going to the dentist, so my fears told me.
I felt dirty and ashamed of the way my teeth had deteriorated.
Frequently I would dream about teeth and often woke up with
broken bits of tooth in my mouth.
Abscesses were regular occurrences and often lasted for several
days swelling the side of my face. The constant pain was almost
unbearable but still my fears prevented me from seeking help.
I have heard it said that "when it hurts enough people will
go to the dentist." ..... which did not relate to me!!!
Eventually
I came to the "crossroads" in my life, I could not continue
to suffer in this way. About a year previous to this I found a
self-help group in my home town so I decided to contact them and
see if they could help. It was a difficult decision to make but,
eventually, it turned out to be one of the best things I could
have done.
Emmet Fox
once wrote. "It is the Law that any difficulties that can
come to you at any time, no matter what they are, must be exactly
what you need most at the moment, to enable you to take the next
step forward by overcoming them. The only real misfortune, the
only real tragedy, comes when we suffer without learning the lesson."
I certainly suffered but I also learnt many very valuable lessons
through the process of dealing with my own fears.
Beyond Fear is not a group, an organisation or
a company. I know the difference beating "the fear" can make and
using the understanding I have about ways to beat the fear and
the wisdom I have acquired throughout my various trainings I now
have the knowledge to help others.
Going Beyond
Fear has been a journey for me and this web site sums up a lot
of thing I have picked up along the way. Things that if I had
know when I started out would have made my journey easier. I
know
that it could make your journey easier too.
Beyond Fear is my way of passing this knowledge on to
others so that their life no longer needs to be controlled by
dental anxiety, fear or phobia.
"No matter what you
have tried before, how desperate and alone you feel or how deeply
embedded your fears are there will be a way that you will be able
to overcome them. The solution lies within and if you diligently
seek it you will, without a shadow of a doubt, find the solution
for you."
You alone can do it but you DO NOT
need to do it alone. For those of you who are truly determined to
beat your dental phobia I offer a unique service, completely
tailored to your requirements, that will enable you to formulate an
achievable action plan to enable you to seek and find the
professional help you need. All you need to be able to take
advantage of this unique service is determination and commitment.
You want to beat your dental phobia .... so lets
make it happen
Anyone can
go Beyond Fear to a life free from Anxieties, Fears or Phobias
